Bedlam Farm Blog Journal by Jon Katz

18 August

Baby Day Was A Huge Success, Thanks: Now, The Most Popular: On To Spaghetti O’s, $$11.44 For 12, And Clam Chowder, $16.08 For Eight. The Pantry Is Out Of Both

by Jon Katz

Today’s request is a bigger deal than I expected. The response from the Army of Good was so strong that she took the items off the wish list today. “You guys were great on Baby’s Day,” she said. You guys are great every day, thank you.

(The Size 5  Baby Diapers remain on the list and are still needed.)

You can see all the items on the updated Wish List and 11 other items the pantry is out of by going to the Cambridge Pantry Amazon Wish List or clicking the green pantry button at the bottom of every blog post. I’m told that wish list browsing has become popular. Please go to it; I start every day that way.  It feels better than almost anything. Please feel free to join the Compassion Revolution.

Sarah tells me that this is the most popular soup next to chicken pot pie, which will be on the list in a day or so. Clam Chowder soup has never been available through the food bank, where the pantry gets most of its food. Spaghetti O’s are also extremely popular and unavailable from the food bank. They are an easy dinner to make, and the kids love them.

But the spaghetti O’s and soup are also much needed and missing from the shelves.

Spaghetti O’s, Canned Pasta With Meatballs, 15.0z Can (Pack of 12), $11.44.

Campbell’s Chunky Soup, New England Clam Chowder, 16.3 Oz Can (Case of 8), $15.68.

Thanks so much for your help. Baby Day ranks with Women’s Day and Dental Day. You are making a difference, and I can’t even begin to tell you how appreciated you are.

 

 

18 August

Put A Woman In Charge. Something Profound Is About To Happen.

by Jon Katz

 

“If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader.” – John Quincy Adams.

A friend sent me this video this morning; I hope you get a chance to see it.

Like many of you, I share a deep frustration with the media’s persistent focus on trivial matters. Whether it’s rehashing a statement made  15 years ago or indulging in name-calling and shallow policy arguments, these distractions are preventing us from addressing what truly matters in our lives.

They have turned our political system into a horse race.

The people rushing to dance and cheer at Kamala Harris’s rallies are not there to applaud her latest interview or policy plan. They sense something very different is happening: a significant and unprecedented shift in leadership – a woman leader.

This is a great big deal, one of the biggest in my life regarding politics.

The video I’m talking about argues that it’s time to Put A Woman In Charge, and this change is of immense significance.

The media views the world as a football game or wrestling match and can’t do much more than pass along arguments and insults or try to predict a winner like a soccer match —always keeping score.

We need to find the meaning and significance of what is happening.  It’s not what we are told but what we feel. That’s the danger of labels. We stop thinking.

But I can feel it. This is a cosmic change.  It has little to do with Donald Trump and his ranting or Kamala Harris’s uptight and cautiously worded plan for making the middle class wealthy again.

Many of us have long awaited the imminent rise of a woman to a position of power. The men have screwed it up and horribly.

Those who understand the political climate can sense it without waiting for a pundit with a laptop to confirm it.

I’m fascinated by the positive change that Kamala Harris already represents, and she’s just getting started. How great to see young people paying attention to politics again for the first time in years.

Her presence has injected joy and a renewed sense of hope into our political system, which has felt stagnant and disheartening for too long. Many of us have given up.

There was no hope. The issue for me is not red versus blue; they are not that different, after all.

The difference is men and women.

This excitement is not about policy positions or name-calling but the potential for a brighter, more inclusive future, a kindler, gentler, more compassionate country.

I don’t judge people by left and right. I look for heart.

We’re all so weary of the same old political circus. We are sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Women are very different from men.  I’m not suggesting they are all perfect. I am stating that the world desperately needs them to be in charge. Harris and her rallies are different.

Women think very differently than men. They don’t seem as willing as men to hurt people; the ones I know care significantly about the needy and people experiencing poverty. They are proving that nurture doesn’t reduce or remove power.

It’s dangerous to generalize; there are many nasty and combative females.

Yet the differences are fundamental, and they do matter. Men are doing what men always do—fighting, dominating, conquering, and hating. We need to try something different, and it is about to happen. It seems that men are just as violent in their politics as they are in their lives.

Mr. Trump and his allies are on the wrong side history. As terrified as they are, they cannot stop it.

The women I have known are more in touch with their hearts than me or most of the men I know, more empathetic than men, and willing to listen and compromise. They care about other people.

I’m so sick of men that I switched every one of my doctors to female physicians, and I have never regretted it for a second.

They want to know me, talk with me, and listen to me. That, for me, is the more considerable promise of a woman in charge.

America desperately needs a leader who understands passion, community, listening, and caring. The world is on fire; I never understand that our leaders feel what they mean. Donald Trump pretends he thinks this is a hoax, but Karmala Harris doesn’t mention it much.

Harris strikes me as someone who has these qualities of empathy; they are much more critical than her promises to appease the media and their demands and the male critics lining up to stop her and call her stupid, a bitch, lazy,  dishonest, and dangerous.

Men have always called these women evil and dumb; they have always persecuted them, demeaned them, dictated to them, and even burned them alive.

My mother, first wife, daughter, and Maria were strong women. I respect and love these people for their warmth and strength, and I rarely get to say that about a man.

I love the idea of not going back.

Women know what going back means to them. It isn’t going to happen. They will speak loudly in November: we aren’t going back, the words many male white politicians most dread to hear.

This morning, a friend sent me the video composed by Keb Mo and Roseanne Cash. I almost cried. I do hope you get a chance to look at it.

It speaks to my heart and my feelings. The country is about to give a woman a chance to be in charge. This alone will transform our country and perhaps much of the world.

Being a politician in America these days means lying to people about what you can accomplish. When failure becomes evident, there is no trust in leaders. Harris has a chance to change that; I hope she does.

As our planet and humankind are on the edge of destruction, it’s time to try something different. Women can change the world, or at least try harder.

I don’t know much about Harris; I pay much more attention to the people cheering for her.

I am drawn to her warmth, smile, and love for other people and their love for her. That means a lot more than any poll.

That means more to me than any speech. That is what a natural leader is – someone who can care for the people they lead. I can see that people like JD Vance are smart. I can’t see warmth or caring;  I only see cruelty and anger.

Warmth is one thing he couldn’t seem to learn. Sadly, he is not weird to me, just very male.

Men like that have failed to lead us to a better or more necessary place.

They seem too often stuck in the male disease—domination, power,  anger, and greed. The world is praying for something different.  Our survival depends on it.

That is what the feminine divine is. That is what I am seeing and feeling in Harris. She isn’t afraid to laugh or smile.

We ache for a leader with a heart, not a gun, a threat, or a nasty name. I’m hopeful and excited. Something profound has begun to happen. I’m grateful to have lived to see it.

Women have never been stronger, more powerful, or more determined. I see it in the faces of the people coming in miles to cheer Kamala Harris on, and I can’t help but contrast them with the faces of the old, sour, and threatened people gathering in those ugly and bleak rallies.

I’m excited. The story of Kamala Harris is just beginning, and she knows it. Making history is different from arguing about taxes. When it reaches the heart, you know something big is happening. The nation is sensing that perhaps even our media will get it one day.

The man in the red cap will never get it. But because of him, in no small way, we may be on the verge of being great again.

 

17 August

Flower Art: Some Of My Greatest Hits. Quarantined Today. I Got A Few Shots, Hit The Archives. No Stopping Flower Art.

by Jon Katz

I had to stay inside today for my body and for my eyes, which are already getting prepped for my cataract surgery on August 27th. I really have to stay out of the sun, which has caused a major hive breakout due to the heat and allergies brought on by the rains. I can’t keep pretending I don’t have to pay attention.

I’m strongly instructed to stay out of the sun for now, and I am listening for once. I got to take a few photos, then went back and dug into my recent archives for a few more and visited Zip. I’m happy with my photos lately and planning what I can do next year to improve my photography even more.

I will be able to take photos and blog regularly during the cataract period; one of my doctors is suggesting some preparatory work on my eyes before the surgery date, August 27th. I’ll figure out how to do it. I had to stay inside today, except for a brief ride with Maria for food shopping. She drove. See you in the morning, and thanks.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

17 August

Chronicles of Zip. Hanging With Me, Stalking Alvin, Flirting For Scratching, Gazing At His Kingdom

by Jon Katz

 

I can’t be out in the heat rigt now, but I did manage a quick visit with Zip. We had a good talk. and a selfie.

Zip was out looking for Alvin today; he was thwarted as usual. Alvin popped up 20 away, squeaked, and disappeared down a hole. Once again, Zip was too late. Alvin 12, Zip 0.

Zip in newly constructed Castle Zip, he can gaze out over almost of his vast kingdom.

 

This is what Zip does when he wants me to scratch his belly. It works too, just like the donkeys know how to get me to give them an alfalfa cube – they look at me with their big round eyes and seduce me with their soft bray, reserved exclusively for me.

17 August

It’s All Babies This Weekend!, Diapers (Size 1 and 5), Baby Wipes. Sarah: “We Are Out Of Everything On The Wish List!” Choosing Between Food And Diapers.

by Jon Katz

Two months ago, we celebrated Women’s Day at the Cambridge Food Pantry with a new and complete women’s shelf, and the other day, it was Mexican Food Day, marking the first time Mexican sauces and salsa were on a Pantry shelf.

We also devoted a day to getting dental paste and fixtures so the elderly Pantry customers could use their teeth again.

Your support is instrumental in helping the pantry to break new ground.

This weekend, we’re facing an urgent need. We’re reaching out to you for immediate assistance in providing diapers and wipes to the mothers and fathers in our Pantry food assistance community. Your prompt action can make a significant difference.

The need is pressing, and your help is crucial. Diapers and wipes cost between $10 and $11.33.

At the moment, food deprivation is not about starvation but choices: whether to pay the electric bill or have coffee or cereal for breakfast. Salaries are static; prices are not.

The pantry was busy this week,” Sarah just texted me. “We are out of everything I have on the Wish List!” She says local farmers and gardeners have helped the pantry keep up to date on produce, something we can’t help them with.

Sarah has organized a small army of generous gardeners who bring her fresh produce. “I keep adding a bag of this or that to the produce section fresh from their gardens. “Today, I bet five people brought us about 10 lbs each of seasonal produce. It makes a nice variety. We had a ton of plum tomatoes today for the first time. People loved them.”

She is gathering every imaginable resource for the pantry. You are helping incredibly.

I remember how draining life was for my wife and me when our daughter was a baby.  It is round-the-clock work. My job was diaper change and wiping. I can hardly imagine what it might be like to choose between new diapers and gasoline to get to work.

That’s what M, a Mansion patron, told me she had to do for many weeks.

She said she has to make the same choice about wipes. “I never have enough,” she said. Most of the Pantry parents are single mothers with small children. Some have several jobs, but they need more money to buy the food they need for their children or the diapers or wipes they need for their babies.

This is a heartbreaking situation, and Sarah is asking us to help. I named this Baby Weekend Diapers and Wipes Weekend. These items will be on the Wish List until Sunday night or Monday morning. Sarah said again that she was so grateful for your help.

I almost heard the cavalry charging when I told M that help was coming. Moments like these remind us of our country’s true spirit—joy, generosity, and a deep concern for those in need. We are all part of this shared history; your support is a testament to that.

Your support makes a significant difference in the lives of these families. The three items below are the most urgently needed on the Cambridge Pantry Amazon Wish List, along with nine other items that Sarah from the pantry would love to see back on her shelves. Your donations will help fill these shelves and bring much-needed relief to these families, showing them they are not alone in their struggle. Feel free to make your own donation choices; many of you buy more than one thing. Bless you. The Wish Lists are updated several times a day, and if Sarah takes one down, it means she has enough for now; she has limited room for storage.

And she just texted me to say they are out of everything on the wish list.

 

Premium Baby Diapers Size 1 (32 Count, Extra-Absorbent Comfort Fit, $10.99.

Size 5 Eco-Friendly Diapers (24-35lbs) Chlorine Free,  Soft Organic Cotton, 12 Hours Leak Protection, Pack of 20, $10.97.

Huggies Natural Care Sensitive Baby Wipes, Hypoallergenic, Unscented, Flip-Top Packs (280 Wipes), 11.33.

Reminder: You can now access the Cambridge Pantry Amazon Wish List anytime, day or night. Just click on the green button below at the bottom of every post I make on the blog.  Carol is deeply grateful for your very generous and inspiring support. Your willingness to help these families in need is truly unique. Thank you. We’ll focus on a new item on Monday; it’s all babies this weekend.

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