Bedlam Farm Blog Journal by Jon Katz

27 February

Video: “This Is Us:” Volume Number Two. How Aging Is Affecting Both Of Our Lives, And What We Will Do About It. Accepting Life

by Jon Katz

We usually do our video, “This Is Us,” on Fridays; we did it today because we are taking a three-day holiday (Cambridge Pantry excepted) starting tomorrow.  We’re going to a museum in Albany tomorrow, Friday, and resting, reading, and planning to talk about how we are dealing with the changes in our lives brought about by aging, mostly mine but Maria’s. As I get older and can do less physical work around the farm, a heavier load falls on Maria.

She loves it, but it is also tiring. We will discuss how to deal with it on our “holiday.” I won’t be blogging except for the Cambridge Pantry requests and needs; we will be reading, dining out, and, blessed of all, sleeping late. Thanks for your warm response to the videos and support for my dry, Lip-Smacked mouth. I’ll be posting as usual today.

26 February

Maria And I Are Taking Three Days Off (Except For Cambridge Food Pantry) Friday, Saturday, Sunday.

by Jon Katz

A few nights ago, I turned to Maria, sitting across from me blogging, and just blurted, “We need a break; let’s take some time off.” To my surprise, Maria, a true workaholic, answered quickly: “I’d love that; we need it.” We had a brief negotiation. First, we’re not going away; we will spend these three days at the farm, reading, talking, walking, if possible, napping, meditating, and sleeping late.

I had one condition: I would not blog, take photos, or post Flower Art or other posts, but I would post Sarah’s daily request for Cambridge Pantry Support on the blog. I hated the idea of people getting hungry because I wanted a rest, so I’ll do pantry support on the blog daily. We have a beautiful, vital, and meaningful streak going with the pantry, and I don’t want to break the pattern. I know the Army of Goodwill understands; they never stop doing good.

Maria’s condition was that we go to a museum in Albany to see an exhibit on fiber art. We can’t miss that one, so we will look for a good Korean restaurant to have lunch at. Then, we will be back home for the weekend. There will be no blog posts, Flower Art, or photos other than those relating to the food pantry.

I have a good friend, Dave, a co-partner of the fantastic Lofty Pigeon bookstore in Brooklyn; he regularly sends me books and gets me even from a distance. He asks me what I’m looking for, and I say, “I want to read every book you love; I trust you completely.”

Four books arrived this week. I’m deep into the first one and drooling over the other three. Dave and I primarily work with mysteries from different countries.

So I have what seem like excellent books I intend to dig into this weekend: Dissolution, by C.J. Sansom, a mystery set in a 13th century England’s corrupt monastery; In The Morning I’ll Be Gone, the third in a series of books by Adrian McKinty about a conflicted but honest Catholic police officer – Sean Duffy –  working during the awful  “troubles” in Ireland; (I’m hooked on this series); Bruno, Chief Of Police, by Martin Walker. This is the story of Benoit Courreges, a/k/a Bruno policeman (and former soldier) who loves country life’s pleasures and slow rhythms. He has a gun but has never used it or carried it. A local murderer suddenly forces him to deal with the open wounds of the very dark Nazi occupation.

Then, finally, Zoo Station by David Downing is the first in the new John Russell Novel series.  An American freelance writer stays in wartime Berlin to be with his son and is drawn into the middle of multi-nation spying. I’m dying to read all of them (I never know what Daved will send until it gets here; he hasn’t failed me yet or even come close. I love our friendship. My daughter, a rabid reader of her life, turned me onto the Lofty Pigeon right in her neighborhood in Brooklyn.

Dave and his bookstore, the Lofty Pigeon,  are a real blessing for me. Dave is a dream bookstore owner. This will be a delightful and restful weekend. Maria is right. We both need it. The books are all new paperbacks, and the prices are reasonable. I used to insist on hardcovers, but Dave broke that habit.

I’m reading Dissolution first; I love the early England details and the hunchback lawyer at the center of this book, which has hypnotized me. This is a tough one to put down.  I’d like you to please stay tuned for pantry requests during our retreat. Otherwise, I’ll see you Thursday and tomorrow, blogging as usual, and off Saturday, Sunday, and Monday. It’s true, we need a rest. It’s as simple as that.

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Note:  I need to make clear that there will be no political hate messages from any side on my blog postings. There is no hate politics, no arguing; there’s enough of that outside of us. The blog is a safe zone, a sanctuary blog; the only one who can argue is me, and I never argue my views or beliefs on social media with strangers.

Please keep your thoughtful and insightful posts coming; I don’t want any complaining about any politician or political movement. I won’t post them. Trolls: don’t waste your time; I have the most wonderful blocking and banning software. I don’t need to know who you hate, why, or the see-what-he-did-today posts. Could you tell me what you think about life, fear, and anger that is thoughtful and useful to others? I’d love to read it, and don’t comment on thoughtful posts other than to thank people.

Ideas have the right to breathe and live.

26 February

Flower Art, February 26, 2025.

by Jon Katz

Why should the older members of society immerse themselves in the issues of the day? If for no reason other than that, they are the only ones who are free to tell the truth and have little or nothing to lose. Older people are not useless in society unless they choose to be. Older people, Joan Chittister, have surrendered the position of seer and sage in a society rife with billionaires, technicians, and bureaucrats, and many of us have abandoned the world we built and made. It just seems overwhelming.

Now is a good time to evaluate what we have done and lost and spare no effort to make it known. I’m fascinated by the number of people who tell me to be silent and let myself be pushed to the edges. My mission in life is simple. Spiritualist Thich Nhat Hanh writes that the definition of hell is simple: it’s a place where there is no understanding and no compassion. “If there is compassion,” he wrote, “then hell ceases to be hell.” I’m on the case.

 

 

 

 

 

26 February

Repeat Requests – Betty Crocker Mixes, Urgent Call For Shampoo

by Jon Katz

As many of you may have guessed, Sarah sometimes repeats requests to increase the pantry’s supply of foods that the members love and want. She hopes to obtain enough of a popular item to last more than a week. Thanks for the donations that keep coming in.

Today, a repeat of yesterday, are requests for Betty Crocker’s muffin mixes and shampoo. She hopes to get at least a two or three-week supply, which is hard to do with more visitors than ever and more funding cuts.

Thanks for the river of good flowing into the pantry because of you.

 

 

Please feel free to include the states or towns you are from. The volunteers love seeing how wide the net of the Army of Good is.

Here are Sarah’s two requests for today, Wednesday.

Betty Crocker Chocolate Chip Muffin Mix 6.5 Oz (Pack of 9), $13.41.

Betty Crocker Tripple Berry Muffin Mix, 6.5 (Pack of 9), $13.41.

Betty Crocker Blueberry Muffin Mix, 6.5 Oz (Pack of 9), $13.41.

Please include your locations with the messages. The Army of Good’s range stuns the volunteers. Members are in every state in the Union.

Here is her urgent request for today:

Alberto VO5, Pomegranate Bliss Moisturizing Shampoo – Hydrating Shampoo with Grace Seed Extract – Pomegranate  Scent, Five Oils and Vitamins 15 Oz (Pack of 5), $12.80.

 

Frank, a new volunteer.

Please browse the Cambridge Pantry Amazon Food Wish List any time, day or night. All of the food listed is urgently needed. You can access the site by clicking on any link here or the green pantry button at the bottom of every blog post on my blog.

 

We would love to know where you live and what town or state you are in.

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