Bedlam Farm Blog Journal by Jon Katz

7 November

Sue Silverstein Is Out Of The Hospital, Her Students Are Happy, She’ll Be At Work Next Week, If I Know Her

by Jon Katz

“Note: Sue was released from the hospital last night (Thursday) and is home and well, and plans to be back at school soon; she is hard to keep down, and tough as nails. Her kids sent me this get-well card, and she would welcome your thoughts and comments, as well as some acrylic paint and inexpensive canvases, which are easy to get on Amazon. I’ll send some along; it might make a nice greeting for her and any discarded objects (see below) for her students. She also loves to get e-mail – see below. You can send get-well cards or objects (or paint or canvases) to Sue Silverstein, 2600 Albany Street, Schenectady, N.Y., 12304. Sue is famous for taking care of other people but not herself. Let’s show her how much she means to all of us. Paint and art supplies are always what she wants. Her students have (see above.) Sue is the best human being I know. Get well, my friend; you are missed and loved. – Jon Katz.”

 

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News from the Art Room – Special Blessings

Fall has been interesting. (That’s a super great big fat understatement.) In my personal life, I wrote a little bit last week about my car, which has been handled beautifully by my insurance agents. They really are like good neighbors (hint) and have been there every step of the process. SOOOOO, my car got hit while visiting someone who was ill, and then I got sick. One week later, I ended up with emergency abdominal surgery and am still sitting in the hospital.

The hospital staff have been amazing. They fixed me in time to avoid significant issues that were about to take over. God has a plan. The students from NDGB have been sending notes and cards all week. The other teachers and staff have been sending nonstop messages of support via text, email and phone.

My family has been here nonstop. I am blessed. I would, however, like to be done, for a little bit anyway, with emergencies. Then I feel guilty because this is nothing compared to some. We have spent a lot of time talking about the goodness of people. No matter what happens in the world there is a core fire of love that cannot be extinguished. Of this I am certain. People, old people, young people, rich and poor people, only want to help others. They do so every day and will not stop doing so.

I am hoping to return to school next Tuesday to get right back into the projects we have going, especially the holiday things in progress. Just remember, even the Grinch could not steal joy.

If you have extra stuffing for pillows around the house, it goes fast during gift-making seasons! We always seek donations for anything you feel could be made into something new! Rolled gauze, wire, glassware, canvas, art supplies, heavy foil, pinecones, glue sticks, seashells, sea glass, bottle corks, sandpaper, and wood.

I love hearing from you. My email is Sue_Silverstein@nd-bg.org 

Have a blessed day!

Sue

ND-BG

2600 Albany Street

Schenectady, New York 12304

7 November

To The Army Of Good. You Are True Heroes This Week And I Need To Shout That Out To The World: THANK YOU!

by Jon Katz

This week, I presented unexpected challenges to the Cambridge Pantry. The usual crowd size was surpassed, and the shelves, including the women’s shelf and the regional food pantry’s delivery, were left bare.

The women’s shelves – tampons, pads, etc. – were empty, and the regional food pantry’s delivery was surprisingly small. It’s clear that our backpack kids might need breakfast cereal, and even the most popular and easy-to-make dinners like Ramen were gone. This underscores the urgent need for your support and involvement.

Sarah Harrington doesn’t rattle easily, but I could tell by the look on her face that she was a war race.

Later, she texted me: “Your people are amazing,” and said, “Please thank them for  us.”

The pantry staff was worried about the Presidential election, as it understandably seemed to have taken up all the energy and attention in the country.

We understood that the public might be preoccupied with the Presidential election, potentially leading to distractions from other pressing issues.

We feared that the people who depend on us for food and other products would have nowhere to turn for some of the things they needed.

But the Army Of Good, true heroes, came through on every count.

The women have tampons and pads; the kids have healthy crackers, cereal, and many Ramen Noodles. People even send them lots of Tide Detergent.

The boxes came every single day. How lucky we are to have you.

Day after day, the Amazon truck pulled up—even on Tuesday and Wednesday, the Army of Good came through. Everyone who goes to the Pansion gets everything they need, a minor, maybe significant miracle.

I can’t thank you enough. I know you don’t seek or work for praise or recognition, but you deserve all those things. You got food and essential personal items in the pantry.

Just to let you know, you’ll stick with us for the long haul. “Your people are just amazing,” one volunteer opened those Amazon boxes.

Yep, Compassion lives right here on my blog and in those sacred packages. You brought a thousand smiles to people who don’t get to smile very often.

 

 

When people need help, you are there, and I am proud to be associated with you and grateful for all the good you have done.  The 10 Refugee children in college right now because of your donations, the elderly citizens who have shoes, socks, and art tools because of you, and the members of the Food Pantry are so grateful for what you do.

You define the very idea of good.

 

 

7 November

Child Welfare: Cleanliness Day At The Food Pantry. Shapoo ($23.88 For Six) And Hand Soap, $7.74 (Pack Of Six)

by Jon Katz

Cleanliness is a perennial challenge for food-deprived parents who have to choose between shampoo and soap or food and dressings. Today’s choices are for health and cleanliness, good health, and the well-being of children.

We see people making those choices all the time.

(Above, volunteer Kyle. The volunteers at the Pantry keep it functioning, clean, and well organized.)

Parents often share with me the heartbreaking reality that if their children don’t appear clean and healthy at school, they can become targets for ridicule. Imagine the impact on a child’s confidence and self-esteem.

When we provide items like shampoo and hand soap, we’re not just offering hygiene but a sense of relief. This means parents can use their limited resources to buy fresh produce and desserts, a luxury they often have to forego. Cleanliness is one of those things the parents don’t ever let go of.

Please help if you can.

 

Softsoap Liquid Hand Soap, Fresh Breeze – 7.5 Oz (Pack of 6), $7.74.

Suave Kids 3-in-1) Body Wash, Shampoo and Conditioners, Dermatologist Tested, Watermelon Wonder, 18 oz, Pack of 6, $23.99.

Alberto VO5 Extra Body Voluminizing Shampoo, 15 Ox, $1.01.

(Voluminizing shampoos help hair appear thicker and fuller, especially for middle-aged and older people.)

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Just a reminder, you can browse and survey the Cambridge Pantry Amazon Food List any day of the week, day or night. Click one of the links here or use the green button at the bottom of every blog post.

I have learned that many people browse the site and make their own choices about what to send, which makes a huge difference.

 

What arrived yesterday from the Army Of Good.

7 November

Clouds And Wind, Even Some Sun. Thursday, November 7 Was A Beautiful Morning. I’m Planning On A Very Good Day.

by Jon Katz

It’s Thursday, and the world has not yet ended. I’m planning a hopeful, busy, and meaningful day. Today’s call from the food pantry is about shampoo and hand soap. Some people like to get a jump on it. Both are on the Wish List. Above, Zip insists on being first.

They were waiting at the gate for their apple cores and food scraps.

 

The sky settles down.

In my chair, I always look and take a picture;

 

The sun came out for 15 minutes, did its thing, and took off, leaving us a gorgeous sky.

 

6 November

Talking With A Donkey: How Lulu Trains Me Every Day.

by Jon Katz

I’ve lived with donkeys for nearly 15 years and have learned to listen and talk to them. They are astonishingly intuitive and know humans well or better than any other animals I’ve known, including dogs.

Lulu and I (and Maria, Lulu, and Fanny) have been communicating with each other in obvious and amazing ways for years. Maria is a natural at this, but Lulu and I have also learned how to speak to each other.

Lulu has a sharp, reasonably loud bray for Maria; she has a soft bray when she wants something like an alfalfa cookie.

Lulu has figured out the camera trick with me; she knows I love it when she sticks her nose at me through the top of the fence. I always point the camera at her and shoot when she does this. When I first started taking photos of Lulu, my cameras spooked her, especially when I told them to her. I reversed this by putting alfalfa squares on the camera and letting her come and sniff when I pointed it. She figured this out instantly – want a cookie, snick your nose out for a photo.

Her other trick was this soft bray used only for me, a clear plea for a treat. The bag of donkey treats is just a few feet from the fence in a trash can in the barn.

The minute I exit the house or the car, Lulu spots me and enters, her soft bray and pleading brown eyes. There is no question about what she wants. She wants me to go into the ban and give her an alfalfa treat.

She knows that soft bray gets to me.

Then she opens her big, black, beautiful eyes towards me and tilts her head, the brays staying soft and only for me. This has worked every time, every day, for 15 years. By letting myself think I was training her, she laid the groundwork for alfalfa treats daily.

I used to assume I was smarter than her, but no longer. She can read my intentions the second I come out of the house, and if I’ve tucked some medicine in my back pocket, she’ll be off like a shot before I take a step.

These big ears give her away. I can tell what each different placement suggests. They rise and fall and twist and turn. They go from “hi” to “Where’s my cookie?” to  “Get lost; you’re not changing that bandaid or giving me a needle.”

This animal hears me when I say “Morning” to Maria softly in the morning. The soft braying begins, and those ears pick it up 30 years away.

There is the question of who trained whom. I am rarely that soft on the dogs, but Lulu knows how to get me to bend. Once you bend with a donkey, you are stuck for life. They do not forget or give up. That soft bray goes right to my heart.  Lulu is more intelligent and patient than I am.

I used to think she brayed because she liked me. She likes me because I give her an alfalfa fit every time I hear it, and I have done it for 15 years. Once in a while, when I am hungry, I will run out to the car, apologizing to her and promising to make it up to her.

I can tell the dogs to get lost, and they will leave me alone. However, with Lulu, there is no way out; she knows how to train humans quickly and well.

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