A problem with aging is that we become invisible to many who see us as helpless, weak, unseen, unknown, and without value.  The young learn to hide from us; how sad for them; they believe they have little to learn from us, even though we have so much to teach.

The good thing about getting old is that it invites us to embrace the fullness of ourselves, something we were always too busy or fearful to do.

We are finally free if we can see ourselves and one other. Alone and even in the darkness, if we listen, our souls rise and urge us to find new selves in exciting and surprising ways—for our benefit and the rest of the world.

At 77, I am happier than I have ever been, busier than I have ever been, and doing more good than I have ever done. We always have something to give. And here’s the lovely part: I have a choice: either to descend into darkness or move to the brighter side of the road. I have no control over getting older or over my health; I have plenty of choices about how to do it.

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“From the dark end of the street.

On the bright side of the road

We’ll be lovers once again.

Little darlin’, come with me.

Won’t you help me share my load?

From the dark end of the street

To the bright side of the road.”

• Van Morrison

From Laurie, a blog reader: “Jon, You are also an encourager to many, which is a meaningful gift. You show that change can be acceptable and reasonable. You have encouraged me to accept getting older, and as you say, it’s not the end—it’s a new beginning. We always have something to give; it’s how we provide that changes. Thanks, Jon.”