I received an unusual request for Dog Support yesterday; a semi-retired college professor wrote me and asked if she could speak with me about an otherworldly experience she was having with her dog, a three-year-old border collie.
She said she knew this sounded strange, but she believed her dog talked to her and could hear her speak in her voice; she also thought the dog was sending her some beautiful poems.
She thought it might be some creative telepathy or psychic transference.
The professor is a writer and a poet.
The Dog Support program is off to a beautiful start; I’m meeting the most excellent and engaging people with exciting and challenging problems.
So far, so good; I’m batting almost a thousand (some cases still work in progress, they will take a while). This request rattled me.
I told her that this wasn’t something I felt qualified to handle, and I was careful not to dismiss or ridicule her call for help in any way.
I’ve learned that I don’t understand and can’t explain many things in my life with dogs, and I’m the first to say so when I don’t think I can help.
She sent me some of the poems. They were perfect, I think, although I’m not a poet. In all of these years of working with dogs, this was something I hadn’t heard.
People always tell me their talks are talking to them, but they never claim they are talking in our words. And no one has ever suggested their dogs wrote poems.
I suggested some spiritual animal writers and asked if she had considered a therapist to help figure this out. I also asked her why she had chosen me.
She said she read two of my books – A Good Dog and Talking To Animals. In the latter book, I did write about visualization and other ways to communicate with a dog.
She said she was impressed that I charged $50 for a consultation; she knew I could charge more.
She also said I would be honest and tell her the truth.
I said I didn’t think she was crazy or odd for thinking this, and nothing would surprise me about a border collie.
It was possible, I said, that the dog was triggering some creative impulses, which were coming through to her as a voice and poems.
That wouldn’t surprise me, I said; our attachments to dogs are very powerful, but I’m just not qualified to make a judgment like that.
I wouldn’t be comfortable taking her money for help. I wasn’t confident about this kind of issue or willing to pretend I knew more than I do.
It’s just not for me to tell her this couldn’t be true or that it could be true. Perhaps an animal communicator could.
She was disappointed but courteous.
I have to say I liked her, she was intelligent, rational, and grounded (home, kids, partner, work), and I had this itch to talk to her longer and more thoroughly.
She was easy and pleasant to talk to, and her request for help was interesting.
She came across as quiet and thoughtful. I called a vet I know and respect and told her about the request, and she said without hesitation, “tell her to find a therapist.”
I agreed with her, but it still nags at me a bit.
I’ve talked to many dog lovers who were much more unbalanced and off-center than she was.
Still, her request is over my head, experience, and skills. I don’t trust myself to know the answer to her question.
My dogs and I talk to one another all the time, but not in that way.
Zinnia and I talked twice today while doing Dog Therapy work at the Mansion Memory Care unit.
We communicate through nods, blinks, gestures, and expressions. She follows my requests and goes where she is needed.
The professor asked if she could try one day again to contact me one if she could not find someone who could or would help her. She’d struck out so far.
I said sure, but I doubted I would change my mind unless I learned something I don’t now know.
I’m very much enjoying the dog support work.
I feel like I am helping people and doing some good with the things I have learned and experienced. I’m also learning a lot, which I love.
Part of that is choosing the proper requests. I’ve turned very few down.
I’m enjoying getting paid for my work as well. You can apply for dog support here if you have a problem with your dogs. It’s $50 per half hour.
I’ll be happy to try and help.
Her story is so similar to the segment on PBS news hour this evening about artists that have a rare neurological condition called synesthesia…so interesting!
Jonathan Livingston Seagull came to Richard Bach in a spooky vision and ended up being a spiritual best seller that engaged and inspired millions of readers. If she goes to a therapist, I hope she finds one that has experience in other worldly shamanic practices and animal communications instead of one who shuts her down. That would be sad and discouraging. Robert Moss is a great teacher in this regard and lives and teaches from upstate New York. His classes are a great resource.
I understand her confusion… I do know that people can stimulate creative processes in other people..sometimes referred to as a muse. However, I was never a fan of that word. It seemed too silly. Given the intellectual (thoroughly untapped) possibilities of certain animals… Border Collies, parrots, porpoises, elephants… Perhaps there is something to this…. Didn’t you interact with a Donkey whisperer all those years ago?
Hi Jon, I have attended numerous group sessions with this person, who is a communicator to people and animals, regarding present and past lives. He’s the most accurate I have ever met. I participated in one group session where he communicated with a horse who calmed right down when the complexities of his (the horse’s) intertwining lives were addressed. The group participant was ecstatic. Please forward, if you think this info might be helpful, to your requester for help. In my opinion, Tom is very accurate and his help is immediate.
Tom Hudson
I forgot to say, Tom is a PhD biochemist, and so also can communicate academically as is natural, when he’s with people.
Nancy, I’ve told her I’m mot comfortable working with her on this, but she has much other good and wiser people to call.. I’m not advising her but I have passed along other people’s recommendations..but it’s not my business any longer.. I need to focus on the clients I can help..
The story of the poet is sad. I am sure she thinks the dog is speaking to her. Border collies can do many phenomenal
things in their own way. I hope this is only temporary for the woman.
Don, I don’t find her sad at all; she is very happy with her dog and the messages she is receiving,no matter how…I just don’t feel competent to advice her, but she will keep at it..sounds like a love story to me..
It’s possible that since she is used to poetry as a form of communication, that’s how she receives the dog’s communication with her, when others might receive it differently. Art is a vast and mysterious process, and who is to say what its limits are. A risk would be that a therapist wouldn’t understand, and most likely another artist would. Or a therapist who is also an artist.
Interesting Monica, thanks. She is used to poetry and I believe almost anything is possible, but it’s over my pay grade in this case..