26 March

The Remarkable Prom Meeting At Bishop Maginn. A “Casino Night” To Remember With Prizes, Games, Food, Apps, Gifts, Tents And Great Music

by Jon Katz

The Bishop Maginn High School Prom Committee has outdone itself, planning a fun, innovative, hi-tech, and memorable goodbye as their beloved school intends to close.

The committee is doing an outstanding job.

I’ve never been a big fan of meetings, a holdover from my brief corporate days, but today was one of the best meetings I’ve ever had the privilege of attending. I went to  Bishop Maginn High School Friday to listen to the Prom Committee’s ideas for their final prom this year after the Army of Good raised $7,000 to leave the school in style, as they wanted and deserved.

These children have had a grinding couple of years as the pandemic took all semblance of regular schooling away. They desperately wanted to leave the school in a spirit of gratitude and celebration.

Principal Mike Tolan and Art and Theology Teacher Sue Silverstein say the prom is just what the school needed to come out of the doldrums and look ahead to an evening they are planning with energy, excitement, and creativity.

The whole school – all four grades will be attending – will be together.

I didn’t go to give instructions or approve plans; that’s not my role in listening. The kids were thrilled, excited, and loaded with ideas; they had many ideas, too many for me to relay all here.

And they very much wanted me to hear them and like them and give special thanks to the people who donated money, so this could happen.

I am so glad we did. I loved the plans, and Maria and I have been told we better come, along with Zinnia, who dozed through much of the meeting.

The prom is now scheduled for June 11. Sue Silverstein says they extended the date so that the students will have something to look forward to, a distraction from the sadness over the school’s closing.

The kids want the prom theme to be a “Casino Night” with toy slot machines and chocolate wrapped in shiny “gold” paper as the winning slot price. (There is no gambling of any sort permitted at the prom, that is both illegal and against church policy, these are toys and chocolate dollars and no money changes hands at the prom)

Tables will be set up with “casino” decorations, and the school teachers will be the casino dealers. A different game will be played at each table. They want it to be in the school gym rather than at a strange country club.

Many of their families don’t have cars and will be able to walk to the prom and see it, which is something the students wanted.

The gym will be full of carny-like games with a teddy bear and other prizes.

One will feature fake toy hatches wrapped in cloth and velcro to toss at bullseye at velcro targets.

An extensive “bar” will be stocked with juices, sodas, and health drinks. The committee is setting up free Bishop Maginn “apps” for each student to download, so they can take their photos and videos and save them on their cell phones to look at for years.

We’re getting Bishop Maginn High School T-shirts as favored prizes.

(Above, Maria with Jasmine, a senior I wrote about – she once lived in a homeless shelter and women’s home and has turned her hardship to good – they have become good friends, and Maria is mentor and friend. It is touching to see them together.)

The refugee and other parents have volunteered to make special food from a half dozen different countries for a rich and delicious buffet table, a celebration of the diversity of the school.

The kids want to hire the best DJ in Albany to come and play the music they love on a series of speakers. I donated 12 teddy bears with the words “Bishop Maginn High” written on the front.

Tania Woodward from the Mansion and the aides are donating 15 or 20 prom dresses from her own proms. The students said they would love to get them.

There will be a candy table for snacks and prizes and a unique photo booth so the graduates and students (all students from all grades are invited) can take their pictures.

They will rent a popcorn machine so anybody can get a free bucket of popcorn.

Every student will get a present or school memorabilia to take home. The prom committee was full of excitement and enthusiasm.

They were still at it an hour or two after I left, and I have probably missed several things they are planning.

They will get the prom that they wanted and deserve – so many of these students have grown up in refugee camps before coming to America – and will celebrate with their teachers and parents.

One another over the closing of a school they loved who helped them so much in their transition to life in America.

The Prom King And Queen and their Court will be extended so more students can be included. I don’t know if Zinnia is in the running for Prom Queen or not, it might be time to turn the honor over to somebody else.

Thanks again for helping to bring this about. Sue Silverstein is watching over this to make sure it goes smoothly and safely.

Sue says they raised enough money (special thanks to you, Denise) for the prom, and don’t need an additional wish list.

Below, Jessica

 

 

4 Comments

  1. I donated $100, and I’m very upset to hear about the casino night—I gave money to a dance, not so underaged kids could gamble. Please return my donation immediately.

    1. Sarah, I’m happy to return your donation. Please send your e-mail or e-mail address to me, if you are on Facebook. There is no gambling at the prom, they are just playing with toy machines and chocolate, a common event at proms all over the country and many churches.

      Hosting gambling for underage children would be a felony, and I am truly shocked you would accuse me and the Catholic Church of having anything to do with that.

      My e-mail is [email protected]. There are no strings attached to the donations, the students are free to do whatever they wish, subject to what is legal and the approval of the school administration, which they have. Believe me, Catholic schools do not permit gambling in their schools. Proms are always themed, and rarely just about dancing. “Casino Nights” are common. No money changes hands, just chocolate.

      I never specified how they decided to plan the prom, dance, or otherwise, and I never would. That is up to them and their teachers. If this is offensive to you, of course, you should not donate to it. Just let me know where to send your money.

      P.S. If the money was sent to the school, I don’t have it, they will return it to you, Mike Tolan, Principal, Bishop Maginn High School, 75 Park Avenue, Albany, N.Y., 12202. If it came to me, e-mail me, not here but to [email protected] with your address. Thanks. I sent $100 to you via Paypal, but I’m not sure if you received it or have a Paypal account. Let me know.

  2. I’m so proud of these students and what they are making of this event. And I am proud of the Army of Good and others who donated in order to facilitate the planning. They are taking it in all the best of directions. They are excited to attend. They are pleased their families can stop by to see it. They want to play. They want to dance. They will probably sing. And they even want to have it right there at Bishop Maginn. And then I knew they also want to honor the people and place that has given so much to the saving of them and their families. I can’t wait to see the photos and reviews of the evening. And thank you, Jon.

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