Marmots are more vulnerable when they are far from protective burrows, and they perceive greater risks in areas with limited peripheral visibility. Bushbuck, however, seek dense wood areas for safety from large carnivores.
These animals believe if their local landscapes are modified, says Daniel Blumstein in The Nature Of Fear: Survival Lessons From the Wild, then their risk assessments also change.
And I’m with the marmots.
For 30 years Blumstein has studied the nature of fear in the wild, and t how we can learn about fear from animals, make selective and reasoned choices about fear so we can be healthier and more productive.
His book has inspired me to think about being safer, and to undertake a program I call the Bedlam Farm Safety Program for older men.
My daughter Emma was pleased and astonished. “Why, Dad,” she said, “that’s unusually practical of you.” I can tell she misses me.
Lots of people run away from fear or deny it.
I have learned to face fear head-on, to pick and choose my worries and try to deal with them head-on.
For example, doctors tell me the greatest health threat people my age and older are falling.
Falls are one of the leading causes of serious injury for older people, and even death
We can’t be afraid of everything all the time, as our alarm-crazy society encourages us do. We have to make reasonable, thoughtful, even scientific choices are the things we fear, and also learn how to get ahead of fear by being safer.
An airplane could fall on me out of the sky, but I can’t do anything about that, so there is little point in worrying about it. Anyone call fall anywhere, and it turns out there is a lot I can do about it.
So I studied the data, did some research, and made some changes I believe will make me safer, and thus also less fearful.
Older people talk all the time about the dangers of falling, but few people actually take the modest steps that can often prevent fall. Just ask hospital orthopedists.
My research told me that most falls by older people occur on porches and steps used to get out of the house in the winter. The second-largest cause of falls are bathroom falls – people fall in the shower. Lots of p Bathtubs often get slippery from soap and water residue. People break knees, wrists, hips, and shoulders. Those can take a long time to heal and require a lot of rehab.
I’d undertaken four projects on the farm. One is a battery-powered, eco-friend battery snowblower. Older men with heart disease are prone to overdo shoveling, and sometimes trigger attacks. My ion-battery-powered snowblower is light, easy to use, and nice to the heart if the snow is wet and heavy.
The second item was Merrill ice grip pull on shoes, which have worked beautifully at gripping snow and ice and keeping me from slipping. These shoes have heavy rubber snow tire treads.
The third was a guard rail put up by our wood craftsman Jeff McQuerry(below)
The fourth safety item is a rubber no-slide bathmat for the bathtub, perhaps the single most dangerous place for older people. The mat is raised, so the water drains out, and is rubber, so the suction cups adhere strongly to the tub.
This signifies a new way of thinking for me, and I have the marmot and other animals to thank for it. I can’t be afraid of everything all the time, as our society suggests, but I can sort through some of the risks and dangers and take steps to modify or prevent them.
That may keep me healthy, and it also gives me less to fear.
one thing I’ve noticed with my bathmat is that it does grow mold and needs to be regularly cleaned or taken up and put over the side of the tub to drain dry after use.
Where did you order your bath mat from? The one we have slides some.
Jon, please share info on your bath mat. I’ve tried many of them and have yet to find one that holds up and stays non-skid. Thanks!
It’s one of those on Amazon Annie….just go to non-slip bath mats..
Just one more safety feature to consider. I had a grab bar screwed into the wall next to the bathtub. I can grab this when I step into or out of the tub. It has been there so long I do not even think about grabbing it to steady me. Blessings to you for writing about your efforts to be safer. I think this will nudge many people toward considering some simple things to protect themselves.
I agree with you! Proactive is better than hindsight. Thanks for more inspiration!
I bought a pair of Merrill ice grip shoes on your recommendation. I can feel the grip even when walking on cleared pavement. Found mine used, a little scuffed but they get the job done of keeping me upright.
I am so impressed with your new safety adjustments! We don’t have much snow or ice here, but your bathmat is one I installed several years ago. I felt so silly and old lady-ish for doing that, They made a big difference in safety and comfort. Now I have gone one more step and have put up two of those portable wall grips. They are so very easy to attach to the shower wall and add a much greater level of security in the shower. I didn’t think I really needed them but “out of an abundance of caution” went ahead and purchased them at Wal-mart. I love them and feel so much more secure, especially getting in and out of the shower.
That bath mat looks great. I would like to buy one. Could you please tell me where you got it? Thank you.