26 December

Changing Lives: The Smallest Kindness Can Bring The Greatest Rewards. Thanks Barry

by Jon Katz

It always amazes and inspires me to learn that the smallest gestures of encouragement and kindness can lead to the greatest gifts.

I remember a student at NYU writing about how much he loved stamps, and I asked him why he didn’t write about stamps for a living.

He did, and he edits a philatelist magazine and has loved every day of his work.

This evening, the following message came out of the blue, I am not big on nostalgia, but this was a spark of light that brought me great joy. I remember Barry, and I do recall our meeting on a street in New Jersey right after I had quit the Atlantic City Press for the Philadelphia Daily News.

I remember calling my boss and recommending Barry, but I never heard from him again, and decades later, this sweet note arrived in my mailbox just a few minutes ago. This one got to me. Barry had a lot of fun.

I wanted to share it of course. Small acts of great kindness can change lives. Barry got the job for himself, but I’m glad I gave him a push:

“Hi Jon. This is Barry K…from the old days. Hopefully, you remember me, although I am sure you won’t recall the incident that inspired this note.
It was 1970, and I ran into you on the street in Ventnor. I told you that I had a degree in journalism but was not considering a journalism career. However, I had just gotten married and needed a job. You revealed that you had just given your notice at The Press, and encouraged me to apply for the position. I followed your advice, and it kickstarted a four-decade career that included more than 30 years as a columnist. Most of that time was spent covering Hollywood, and I had more fun than one could imagine.
I’m not dying, but I did want to thank you for giving me that initial push toward a career I loved. I’ve been retired for six years, and my wife and I recently celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary.
 There is no expectation of return correspondence. I just wanted to thank you.
Regards, Barry.”

The thanks go to you, Barry. I wouldn’t think of not responding. I think it is often the small gestures in life that mean the most. People who love their work are rare and sacred to me. I am one of them.

2 Comments

  1. VENTNOR, VENTNOR, VENTNOR – I LOVE VENTNOR AND MARGATE!!!! THOSE OCEAN BREEZES! FOOD TASTES BETTER DOWN THE SHORE ! So happy he reached out again.

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