A big moment for Maria, an affirmation of her strength, her growth, her courage and determination. Getting Chloe was hard for her to do, she never had a horse before, and riding a horse brought up a lot of old fears. She never wavered, something inside of her told her she had to do it.
A couple of weeks ago, a young friend asked to ride Chloe and the pony threw her, Maria had a tough time with it.
It seemed almost like a post-traumatic stress trigger, she became anxious about the pony, about her ability to ride her, about being thrown and injured. Day by day, she battled her way back. She asked Eli Anita-Norman, Chloe’s former owner and a riding instructor, to come over Friday and they worked together.
Yesterday, at Eli’s suggestion (she said Chloe looked fine, a bit out of shape but health) Maria went and bought a lunge line, she decided to begin giving Chloe a daily workout before riding her. This will keep Chloe in shape and get the two of them used to working with each other.
It worked beautifully, Maria stood in the center and Chloe walked and trotted in a circle, she got a good workout – this will be a daily thing, I believe – and Maria’s confidence and strength surfaced, bubbled up, she got her helmet, got on Chloe and rode her around for a half an hour.
Everything changed, she said, the two were in sync, she was sure of herself. It was a wonderful thing to see, Maria is writing about it on her own blog, I took a short video of the lunging. I’m proud of her, as always, growing fond of the pony too. She is a solid and affectionate creature.
Maria is learning how strong she is, it was not something she was able to see. From the first, the story of her and Chloe has been a story of growth, change and strength. It is a great pleasure to be able to see it and record it. That is really Maria’s story, from the moment I meant her. She is tough and strong, she can take care of herself. I am learning why horses have such a powerful emotional impact on so many people. If you work at it, they will make you stronger.