Some of the most interesting messages are get are people who tell me they have been through things I’m going through. They don’t have any messages for me, or any questions. They just want me to know that they’ve been through some things I have gone through.
  That is oddly comforting, really, because it reminds you that there is another side, and people come through it. This is not always true, as with serious illness or even death, but it is often true with some of the painful things we experience in life.