Bedlam Farm Blog Journal by Jon Katz

23 August

Donkey Love, Donkey Calm

by Jon Katz

The strength of the donkey mind lies in adopting a course inversely as the arguments urged, which, well considered, requires as great a mental force as the direct sequence.” — George Eliot

For most of my life, I never imagined living with a donkey, let alone two beautiful sisters. I love my donkeys and now cannot imagine life without them. Our donkeys are wise, serene, and loving when they are in the mood.

Every idea must be theirs, or they are unlikely to do it. They are patient and softly bray, never beg. They have no use for predators or people from New York City who spray themselves with hand sanitizers when they touch a donkey.

They are not easily impressed but get irritated when approached without a carrot, apple, or fawn over too much. They are immune to commands and pleas. They just don’t care what you want them to do.

When they want attention, they come up quietly behind me and butt me in my butt. I get the message. Once they are scratched, they move away. They love some attention, but not too much. They learned years ago how to manipulate me; it’s simple for them; I fall for it every time they want something to munch on.

I love the sound of their crunching on an apple or a carrot. I love that they can hear Maria and I wake up in the morning and bray for some food. I love that they chased a fox who had once captured a chicken all over the pasture until he dropped it, and then they chased him right over the fence. He never came back.

From that moment on, the hen always hitched a ride on a donkey’s back when she went out into the pasture to search for bugs and worms.

23 August

Flower Art. October Light, A Festival Of Color And Light. Thanks, Sun.

by Jon Katz

I think it’s foolish for people to want to be happy. Happiness is momentary—you’re happy for an instant, and then you start thinking again. Interest is the most important thing in life; happiness is temporary, but interest is continuous.”  — Georgia O’keffee.

I  believe I have a right to be happy, but I see what she means. My interest is always there, but my happiness is not. See you in the morning. My eye surgery will be next Tuesday morning. I expect to blog as usual when I get home.

 

 

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23 August

Weekend Special, Day One. Comfort Food, Smile And Joy Food!: Velvetta Shells And Cheese, $1.42, Toothpaste, $10.65 (Pack Of Four) , Efferent, $5.49. Turkey Stuffing. $1.42.

by Jon Katz

Sarah and I devised a weekend theme of joy and meaning: “Four items would be great,” she wrote.  That means she’s worried. “People are so generous. The Army of Good is doing well for us.” The idea is to get comfort food for the cooler weather (soon to be cold). “This is such a great idea,” she said. “When they see any of these foods, the people in the families coming here smile.  We need all four, and thanks.”

If you are inside the pantry when the families come, you see them smile and light up when they see items they used to be able to get and still want. Unlike most food pantries, this one has a lot of trouble finding out what their patrons want. They work hard to respect the dignity of people who need help.

 

1. Efferendent Retainer Cleaning Tablets, Tablets For Dental Appliances, 102 Tablets, $5.49.

2. Colgate Max Fresh Whitening Toothpaste With Mini Strips, Clean Mint Toothpaste, Fights Cavities, And Bad Breath, 6.3 Oz (pack of four) $10.65.

3. Stuffing Mix Turkey Flavor, 6 Oz., $1.42.

4. Velveeta Shells & Cheese, Stuffing Mix Turkey Flavor, 6 Oz, $1.42.

 

NOTE: I’ll post these items this evening, tomorrow, and Sunday—three days to take your time and see what, if anything, you can do. I buy three or four lower-priced items each day and save the more expensive ones for later in the weekend. In this case, $10 isn’t all that expensive, and it will keep many teeth clean in any family.

You can access the Cambridge Food Pantry Wish List 24 hours a day, seven days a week. When Sarah has enough of the requested items, she’ll remove them from the list and add other ones. All of them are needed.

You can access the Wish List here using the green button at the bottom of every blog post.

 

Sarah has worked extra hard to make these items as inexpensive as possible. I love the idea of “Smile Day.” It is difficult to admit you can no longer pay your bills or feed your family. Every smile we can bring is a precious smile.

23 August

News From The Art Room, By Sue Silverstein. Next Week: Sue’s Annual Wish List For Art Supplies, Right Here. Don’t Miss it!

by Jon Katz

Once again, we are blessed to have Sue Silverstein’s Friday column here on my blog. Next week, we’ll request your support for a Bishop Gibbons Amazon Art Supplies Wish List for the Fall. Sue’s lists are great fun; she is cautious about the price, and the supplies we send her will be transformed magically into great art by her 80 creative students—next Thursday or Friday for the Wish List.  I’ve helped with a score of these for Sue, and it is one of the most joyous and worthwhile things I have ever done. See you next week right here, Jon. And thanks for all the beautiful things in these boxes for Sue and her students. She will put all of them to good use; she is my sister from another mother. She is the best human I know.

 

News from the Art Room 17-Summer Edition

The excitement is building for another wonderful school year. The school is shining after a summer of arduous work from the maintenance staff. Soon, the class lists will be out, and I will be excited to see all the names in my classes. I cannot wait to show them the items that have been donated over the past few months. I can already imagine who will be excited about some of the items I have put away for them.

I was delighted to have lunch with Hser Nay and Danielle last week. Hser Nay started UAlbany this week, a long way from a very unsure 8th-grade girl who had a rough journey before she came to us. Danielle and her husband Steve have sponsored Hser Nay the entire time: lunches, uniforms, tuition, and moral support. Hser Nay plans to change the world, and she will. This I know.

The help we all give kids is a hand-up, not a handout. Often, the smallest hand-up is all it takes to allow a kid to believe in the goodness of people. When the students see the donations arrive, they commonly ask why total strangers are so good to them. Strangers are friends we have yet to know. Your kindness changes lives daily.

The pile of boxes by my door was astounding this week. Thank you to each of you who took the time to help.

Thank you, Lee, from MA., for the linens and lovely buttons,

Thank you, Mary Ellen, from Ohio, for the healthy snacks, other items, and the absolute hit: a bag of shark teeth!

Thank you, Barbara, from MD., for the fabric, yarn, colored pencils, brushes, and more!

Thank you, Mary Ann, from PA., for the jewelry findings, glue sticks, and many craft items.

Thank you, Karen, from NY, for the metals, stamps, maps, wire, etc.

Thank you, Lisa, from NH., for the lovely figurines (that a young student who happened to be around snatched up instantly with delight), the fabrics, the maps, and everything else.

Thank you to Jackie from NY for the framing supplies, lovely art books, mat boards, and much more.

A special thanks to Kathleen, who sent a lovely tea set that her father had gifted to her years ago. We will try extremely hard to do it justice!

So many simply kind people are changing lives for the better!

Jon has offered to let us post a wish list next week to include the things we need to complete the program. We are so grateful for any help and are also forever grateful for the kind thoughts and good wishes. It makes a difference.

I am still seeking donations of everything you feel could be turned into art! Wire, gauze, plaster, shutters, glassware, paint, canvas, printing materials, maps, stamps, sandpaper, wood scraps, and all the other amazing things you can think of would be so helpful. If you are local and have smallish pieces of furniture you would like to see repurposed, we are always looking! The students love to make old things new!

I love hearing from you. My email is [email protected] 

Have a blessed day!

Sue

ND-BG

2600 Albany Street

Schenectady, New York 12304

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